So, I've never had sex. I've never looked at someone and thought, "I want to have sex with them." I've always assumed that I was ace or grace because of this. However, it was recently brought to my attention by an online ex-fwb that I am a very sexual person. I love dirty talk and sexting. When I get involved with somebody in real life, I like to do sexual things (mainly foreplay, giving oral sex, etc.) pretty quickly and frequently. I'm starting to think that I might just have a weird thing with penetration, because I have no desire to have PIV or anal sex. I don't know if it's the fear of pregnancy (for PIV), the fear of it hurting, the realization that it probably just wouldn't feel that good compared to other sexual acts, or a mix of all 3. I kinda just don't want someone inside me. Can I still be ace?