Tell me why is it so tough to find someone decent to marry even though I meet/have met decent girls all my life. I waited to get my life in order and didn't pay much attention to setting myself up with someone. Now that I am in a position to settle down, it seems almost impossible. I feel like I am falling behind. I think of myself as nice-ish and decent (been told by others the same), but this shaadi and dating apps are demoralizing to say the least. I do believe it gets better (perhaps im an idiot?), but this experience is not helping lol. Just wishing everyone good luck and remember to apply the golden rule ("Do unto others as you would have them do unto you"). Its tough out there for everyone.

I've been a lurker here for a while and as a side note, are people not meeting other people here? Seems like a great place to be meeting people. Everyone has the similar experiences, we don't even need ice breakers lol. Ice has been broken by everyone already.