AM search is now all over the place. It's not working anymore. People are having crazy expectations. 1. Spoke to some one who with 34/F. She wants to 2 kids. One by age 36, two by age 40. She wants her own apartment & car but she does not earn enough. (Income less than 7lpa). The math just does not work out. She is single at 34. If she gets married asap then also it takes 1 yr to deliver a baby. Who wants to plan 2nd kid at age 40 ? Who has the physical n mental capacity to play, run, feed a new born baby at age 40 ? How she plans to buy an apartment costing 50 lakhs & a car costing 6-7 lakhs ? People just forgot maths.

1. Instagram life : 1st question to me: where do u live ? Do u have your own house ? How much is your salary ? Can u drive ? Why knowing driving is such an important factor to be checked on the first call ? Are we living in Canada or India ?

2. Cannot relocate out of town but expect guy to make 40 lpa. 40lpa jobs are not that much abundant in kolkata. But women here just love to complaint and ask for high salary. Even not working women are not interested to move outside because they are comfortable with the city/family.

3. Career oriented jobless people: Age 33/34. But not working. Having master's or PhD. Planning to work. Or trying for govt job. Which govt jobs have vacancy for ages 34 candidates? Why did you do phd and then sit idle ? Why can't to do food delivery at big basket or swiggy ? Bcz looks like you don't have any skills. When, asked to relocate, then they say, she can only relocate if she gets a post doctoral position. Otherwise she will stay in silchar, Assam and continue to "search" for job while sitting at home.

4. Can't live in Dubai, because it's a Muslim country. Why ? Is dubai government converting every hindu ? Are they doing hate speech against Hindu or other religions? (Oh wait, it happens in india!!). No. Dubai has no freedom of speech. Ok, so u gonna post a tweet and tell that the supreme leader is stupid & coward and a dictator ?? (Yesz try that in india and let's see which constitution right saves you from RSS)

5. Brother of potential candidate, with a state government clerical job, who can't type a English sentence properly asks for salary slip to verify earnings of the guy while her sister sitting at her Village home all day after BA in English and "searching for job" since 2016. While, asking why do you need salary slip, he says, I don't think this much salary is possible here in IT role. Because his friend working in TCS earns 60k/month only.

6. Women who are fat, don't do any basic workout or don't even walk 5000 steps a day at the age of 33 rejecting guys who are losing hair at the office 35. Also, they call themselves "healthy". Healthy is not fat apparently. Wtf, is wrong with society and peoples expectations.

People want kids but single till age 34. People want to have an apartment but never bothered to make an FD to save money. People want 40lpa guy working n living in a village of Bengal. People want to 2 kids then outsource the kids to nannies which the husband will pay, because managing 2 kids is so tough. People want long drives in tata Nexon car with a background song "Love u zindagi". But can't afford a car or don't know how to drive. Good luck to all of them.