We all have our own struggles, especially when it comes to personal life it definitely ain't easy. Love has always been the most complicated of all things. Everyone has struggled through this. Marriage is the higher level of this complex feeling. And by the time you reach the stage of arranged marriage most if us have already given up on love and trying to find compatibility.

Arranged Marriage struggles are often as real as it gets. The problem sometimes are that we mostly cannot discuss these with anyone else as everyone around especially in modern days, when love marriages are common. Few common reasons why most people opt of arranged marriage are : * Break-Ups, lost interest or no more energy to get into a new relationship * People who don't tend to get into a relationship, someone who never had a chance with love * Family Pressure

No matter what the reason is the struggle remains the same with the process. Firstly, as someone who is into the process can tell I really hope my friends or other people should 'normalise' arranged marriage and be a little sensitive while talking to us. Often I have seen people asking, "so how's your search for the right groom going?", trust me it's one of the worst question to ask them. We are already struggling with talking to numerous people and nothing working out, the process is very tiresome, and love is never a factor here. Unnecessary questions from people really hits people really bad. Coming to my next point, please please I urge you all to please not consider arranged marriage as a personal failure. I know you tried hard with Love, but didn't succeed, which absolutely doesn't mean you failed.

The whole process might break you and you might feel unworthy at times, i have felt too. There is nothing I will say, that can make it easy but if you can keep your hope alive and not settle for anything less you will succeed. :)