• Looking for My Best Friend with a Spark 💫

Hey there! Okay, so here’s the deal: 40's, married, and honestly, my marriage is solid. It’s the kind of relationship where we can binge-watch entire seasons of dramas without saying a word to each other, which is both comforting and, let’s be real, a little unsettling. But lately, I’ve been feeling this itch, this low-level hum of ‘Is this all there is?’

I’m looking for someone who feels like a best friend but also a little dangerous in that fun, romantic way. Someone who’s up for soul-baring conversations but also can make me laugh with their sharp wit or surprise me with a new way of looking at the world.

I’m a successful in my career who works from home, which sounds glamorous but mostly means I spend my days balancing on the edge of productivity and chaos while keeping things organized enough to feel sane. I love cooking (like, aggressively love it, think amateur Ina Garten but with more cursing), photography, and throwing myself into hobbies that keep life feeling new and a little unpredictable.

If you’re someone who gets that life is messy but still kind of beautiful, let’s see what happens.

Also, just to be clear: discretion is key. I’m not here to blow up anyone’s life. I just want to create this little pocket of something special for the both of us. If this doesn’t scare you off (or, better yet, intrigues you), then hi. Let’s talk.