I am not sure if this is the place to post this. Last night my wife and I went to Personal preference for the first time. Once we got there we quickly realized that we had no idea what we were doing.

First of all it was nothing like we anticipated. We are new to this and just wanted to check things out. We are not ready to begin sharing yet but are open to watching, being watched and meeting new people. We got there a little after 9 and the couples room was empty. We had a seat and waited. After a little bit a couple came in. The woman blew the guy and they left. This seemed to be the theme foe most of the night. Did we just pick a bad time to go?

Also we both enjoy watching and being watched. What is the etiquette? Is it okay to just watch? I imagine that people are in public because they have an exhibitionist streak. We did not want to be creepy or make people uncomfortable. Any advice would be appreciated.