I thought about creating a throwaway for my throwaway; instead I’ll probably only leave this up for a few hours.

35 year old, married (no she does not know), super DL bi guy. I’m not super fit but I also don’t have a dadbod. In my younger years I had the occasional hook up with guys and I’ve got the urge for it again. Because it’s been so long I’m looking to go slow, chat, exchange some pictures, and if we’re both feeling it meet up. I’ve always been orally bi and a top of it gets that far. I need someone who understands that not only does this need to be as discreet as possible I don’t have the most open schedule. Ideally I’m looking for another married guy who has the same urges I do and is willing to explore them with me. I need someone local to the east valley and we can figure out who’s hosting when it gets to that.