Hi All! My wife and I are curious about this lifestyle as compared to swinging or hotwifing or stag/vixen. Not sure which we fit, or if we fit any or all.

At this moment, she isn’t looking for a stranger, but we dont want to include our current friends. So, maybe we meet a couple that is willing to discuss what this is for them, who are already in the lifestyle.

I want to watch her with other men, but, I’m not one who wants to be denied sex…I have bi tendencies, and, well, ultimately my ideal situation is a man that we can both have fun with and will do so with us. Again, I see so many different variants of these lifestyle definitions I’m not sure which is right, or it’s up the the couples themselves.

We don’t want a throuple, I’m thinking we do want a Bull, if a Bull is just a guy with a bigger cock. And if married, I’ll play with the other guys wife. But really want to watch my lady get laid really really well, and to enjoy her own sexuality free of my judgement.

If she wants to do solo stuff later, I’m sure we will come across that and most likely do it…but for now, we haven’t done anything, just talking to see what is our best fit to explore.

If you care to share please DM or chat here. I’ll get back with you as I have lots of questions. Perhaps if you are in West Valley, or in Yuma, we travel there too, we can meet, or maybe even Skype and discuss.

Thanks!