I’m a Libra (F30), started dating an Aries (33M) about a month and a half ago.

We met via Tinder, I was really upfront with him that although we were matching on tinder, I was a relationship person. He said he was also looking for a relationship and that my honesty was a turn on for him.

(As a side note: after we traded numbers he unmatched me, I know some people have talked about how it’s easy to get banned from tinder so I didn’t ask him about it. But I’m wondering if anybody else has experience with this or does this too?)

Our first date we got dinner and then went to a bar for a while before going back to his place, the whole thing lasted about 7 hours. We didn't sleep together but he immediately texted after I left that he had fun. I told him it was the best first date I'd ever had, he said it was for him too.

The next weekend we went on 3 more dates F/S/Su, where I was introduced to a number of his friends. His closest friend upon meeting me said “wait! you're [my name]?!” And shook my hand. For one of our dates we went on a double date with his best friend and their partner. The other night I met more of his friends, and another of his really close one’s heard my name and said “oh wait you're [my name]?”

Since those first four dates we've been seeing each other 1-2 times a week. We started sleeping together after the 4th date and I stay over at his after every date now. Our sex life is everything that I’ve read says about Aries and Libra, hands down the best I’ve had.

He has told me that he cares about me, really likes me, likes that I'm funny and sweet, has said that he feels like he can be open with me without judgement, calls me beautiful. He recently asked if he could start calling me "baby." He told me I can keep a toothbrush at his place for when I stay over. He's invited me to a his birthday celebration, actually he just said "you're obviously going to be there," not so much an invite. We're both incredibly affectionate together, when we're out we're almost always holding hands, his arm around my shoulders/chair, kissing, sitting in his lap. PDA doesn't bother us.

The other day we had a nap date. We both had a couple of hours to kill in the afternoon so I went to his place and we just napped, then he had to go to work and I went home, no sex.

I know he's an Aries Sun and Aries Moon, I don't know his ascending. I'm Libra Sun, Leo Moon.

I really really like this guy, but all of the reading I've done says that Aries get bored fast and the thrill of a new relationship will wear off. I've seen that he still has tinder on his phone and occasionally it'll have that little notification bubble and we haven't defined the relationship. Am I jumping the gun since it's only been 6 weeks? I don't want to scare him off by pressuring him, I just feel like if Aries jump into things quickly and we haven’t DTR…should I worry that I'm just a fun time and that this isn't heading towards something more serious?