I had my heart broken by an (FA) and I repressed the anger I had for that girl until I exploded on this sub Reddit and embarrassed myself by transferring that anger on to strangers.

Many avoidants reached out to me and said Anxious types can be toxic to. I knew they were right but I Ignored them because I wanted to be angry

Trolls than started spewing vile nonsense at the avoidants and it looked I was on their “side”

I realized that if I allowed myself to become as bitter as the trolls I would become as nasty as they are.

Also I can’t call myself a stoic and not own up to my bullshit self awareness is a must.

The cool thing about this sub is people can get support get from strangers. I like giving advice to people with similar patterns to my own, and getting tips from people who are further along in healing than myself. I would be a hypocrite if I didn’t acknowledge my own poor behavior. I’ve deleted my pervious post, as they don’t belong on this sub.