I currently live states away from my family (my choice) and am in a 2 year relationship. We love each other a lot. I’ve been living far, far away from my family for 10 years now, and I’m starting to realize how much I miss them.

I constantly wonder where I will end up. Truthfully, I’m not a huge fan of where I currently live. It’s a major city with tons of people my age and tons of opportunities. But it was never really where I saw myself forever.

The problem is I don’t even know where I see myself. I want to live closer to my family deep inside, but I also do not love where I’m from. It’s cold, gets snow, and the people aren’t the friendliest in the US…. Lol.

I’m in this odd place. I know a move isn’t in the near future at all, but with my GAD I constantly think about 5,10,15 years into the future and where I will be, if my boyfriend will even want to move, etc.

Does any one have tips or just stories of overcoming this? I find that I am really missing out on the present moment and at least trying to make my current situation work for me.