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My boyfriend got super drunk, almost blackout last night while he was on vacation. He never drinks like this. I can’t stop catastrophizing. It’s killing me
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I’m 26 he’s 30. He’s in a different state visiting family and old friends right now. We’ve been together for one year and he’s always given me reasons to trust him and he’s the most supportive partner I’ve had.

BUT, I have extreme anxiety and it always takes over me no matter the situation. So despite the fact that I trust him, my anxiety is making it so hard.

He’s been gone since Wednesday. He barely talked to me all day today and he is the one who is always FaceTiming me first, etc. didn’t text me back good morning, and talked to me for the first time at 1pm. I can’t stop catastrophizing that he’s talking to someone else or cheated.

We talked again tonight and he was still hungover and not being his normal self at all. He’s not telling me he misses me in text messages or anything and he normally does that when he’s away. Is the hangover really that bad and can make your whole mood and brain functioning change? Can this happen? Even so, he could’ve still called me if he was just laying down feeling sick.

I just need help or even just a different perspective on this to help me get rid of this anxiety and enjoy my weekend alone. But I can’t stop worrying what he’s doing.

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