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I’m having a bit of a day and just need some reassurance. I know my mind is just thinking the worst. My boyfriend is visiting his family on a vacation in a different state and tonight he is going out with his old manager and coworker. I don’t know who they are.
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I’ve been with him for a year. I honestly have no reason not to trust him but of course my anxiety will lie to me all the time for no reason.

He’s one of the most supportive and loving partners I’ve had and he just recently moved in with me. I’m very excited about that.

The issue I am having is with anxiety while he’s traveling. He just got to his destination a couple days ago and has been visiting his mom and brother and siblings. They’re a big family and celebrating his nephews birthday.

Tonight I guess he’s meeting up with his old manager and a coworker. I am assuming they are girls because when we were driving him to the airport I saw a text come through from someone and he told me oh that’s my old manager and we’re making plans to catch up while I’m back. I was like in my head ok don’t panic, you would want the same if it was you.

I talked to him today and he told me they’re grabbing dinner and then he’s going out with his brother and one of his guy friends. Which I’m totally fine with.

Why am I so nervous and anxious about him meeting up with his old manager and coworker? I have never not trusted him but I have this uneasy feeling in my gut but I know it’s just my anxiety. I want him to be able to hang with friends. I know all of the things like “he chooses to love you and be with you” and I tell myself those things all the time but I still feel sick to my stomach thinking about his dinner plans tonight.

Any advice appreciated. I hate how this consumes me. I want to just enjoy my weekend alone and relax!

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