Hey everyone,

I’m a 28 straight male who’s really into anal play—especially wearing buttplugs for longer periods. It’s something that really turns me on. That said, I’ve been having a hard time staying consistent with my training because, well, life happens—work, responsibilities, and all that. Even when I do find the time, sometimes the mood just isn’t there, which makes it even harder to keep up regularly.

I’ve been thinking that having some kind of Dom or Master might help keep me on track since it’d add structure and accountability. However I’m also married, and I’ve got an amazing, supportive wife. She’s cool with me doing my own thing, but anal isn’t really her thing. I’d love to involve her somehow, but I don’t want to push her or make her feel uncomfortable. If there’s a way to bring her into this in a way that’s easy and low-effort for her, that would be incredible.

TL;DR: How do you all stay consistent with your training? Does anyone have advice on how to include a supportive partner who might not share the same level of enthusiasm?

Appreciate any tips or advice you’ve got!