I’ve been anal training my wife lately (see my posts in r/sluttyconfessions if interested). We were starting the typical way last night with two of my fingers in her ass. I had a butt plug ready to insert but she said I could fuck her ass instead if I wanted. Hooray for training!

Anyway, I had her get on top of me in reverse cowgirl position and put my dick in her asshole. As she was moving up and down on it she asked, “Is it super tight?” in a way that kind of implied, “Is that why you like it?”

I answered honestly that it wasn’t so much that but more that I loved the taboo / forbidden fruit aspect of it. We were no-anal for many years after trying it once early in our marriage.

r/AnalOnlyLifestyle, this is when inspiration struck: I then said, “If we were anal only for awhile, I would probably develop a fetish for your pussy.”

She replied, “Oh yeah?” in that kinda sultry voice that told me I’d hit upon something intriguing to her.

She has a really hard time orgasming, so part of my training has been to buy her whatever vibrators she wants and then encouraging her to use them while I’m in her ass with fingers or my cock. I want to create that association in her mind that anal = orgasm. And to help her find that it feels better / happens faster that way.

After doing reverse cowgirl for awhile, we switched to spooning and I was fucking her ass fairly gently for awhile. She was still vibing her pussy. Then she turned off her vibrator and put her ass in an even more direct fucking position relative to my dick, if that makes sense. I grabbed her hip and started thrusting a little harder and faster and kept checking in with her that it was OK. She seemed to be enjoying just being fucked a little hard and fast in the ass! I fucked that ass until I came in it.

I’m thinking now I should keep encouraging this idea that if she refuses me her pussy for awhile, I’ll develop a fetish for it. I think I actually might too! But in the meantime I would really love the AO relationship! And maybe she would get to a place where she’d rather have my cock up her ass so she can orgasm with a vibrator or eventually just because I’m fucking her in the ass. Who knows but AO suddenly seems on the table for us in a way it never did before. Wish us luck! 👍🏻🍑