Anyone ever experienced this? Wife and I been together 10 years. Occasional anal, nothing too often and obviously wanting more. In the past there were some requests for me to be more dominant and to “take” what I wanted so I entertained and turns out. Anal is only on the menu if I make it that way. Feels a little odd when you have great communication with your wife and you need some verbal confirmation for what might be the mood for later or a craving. Anyone ever experienced this? She specifies that it’s not grape fantasy and more just a submissive kink. Am I wrong to feel off about just pushing her into position and going for anal?