After discovering this sub and spending a few hours exploring the stories, reports, tips and experiences posted in this sub, I decided to share our story here. The euphoria of meeting people with this common interest motivated us (in common agreement with my wife) to summarize our long journey and, who knows, inspire other people. Although we are not exactly AO, we are somewhere on the spectrum.

When we met, it was love at first sight for me. The part of her that caught my attention the most was her big butt. It was so round and matched her curves so perfectly... I was in love with her for about two years until we started dating and then it was a perfect match. It felt like she was living a dream, as it seemed like we were made for each other, but she had some sexual issues that were difficult to understand. Well, although she was a little older than me, she was a virgin and came from a very conservative family (for example her mother always accompanied her to the gynecologist for "inspections"). To my surprise, she proposed that we have anal sex to circumvent her mother's surveillance and also as a contraceptive method (she had contraindications for contraceptives due to hormonal reasons).

Our first time was magical and I remember the details clearly to this day. However, her ease with anal sex planted in me the suspicion that she lied to me about her virginity, but I ignored this useless concern. So we became actively AO after 3 months of dating. Although I was completely satisfied, I thought it was up to me to deflower her with vaginal sex and then the problems came... She was very nervous about trying vaginal sex, in addition to complaining about pain and discomfort, she bled a few times, she bled a few times, I thought I was doing something wrong with her... even with a lot of lubricant it wasn't pleasurable for me, much less for her, but I kept trying with persistence (for her pleasure), as I was already fully satisfied with anal sex. It is worth mentioning that her vagina did not die, on the contrary, it became abundantly wet during anal sex, but it dried out and contracted during vaginal sex. We agreed that we would get married and have children (they already had names) and that we would have vaginal sex after marriage.

I started living a dream. It was too hot to think that our relationship consisted exclusively of anal sex. We got engaged and in order to avoid secrets and unresolved issues between us, in the midst of the wedding preparations, I asked if she was really anally virgin before me... She broke down crying and confessed to me that she was always very repressed by her mother and never had sex with anyone, but despite never touching her pussy, she used to masturbate through her ass to feel pleasure. She said this, crying profusely like I had never seen before and it broke my heart. We cried together and I regretted my misunderstanding and mistrust. She said she felt bad about not being able to be a "complete woman" for me and I apologized for having distrusted her for so long, I said that everything was fine and that vaginal sex was not a priority for me and that I insisted just for her. In other words, we wasted an immense amount of time searching for something that was not desired by either of us for fear of assuming our preferences with courage and sincerity. After this revelation, more than ever I was sure that she was the woman of my life.

We got married and we had an anal-only honeymoon.. After a few weeks, I said it wasn't my choice, but that I was willing to try vaginally if she wanted. We tried and it didn't work. We sought medical help and she was diagnosed with a mild degree of vaginismus. She had pelvic physiotherapy. I followed the entire process to support her. In the second year of marriage we had functional vaginal sex, but it wasn't our thing. It wasn't natural for us and it wasn't pleasurable like anal sex. So we started doing it vaginally sporadically. I'm obsessed with her ass and she actually prefers anal sex, so it's not a problem for us.

As time went by we got used to this arrangement. It became our "normal", i.e., having sex for us simply means anal sex. My wife often says that sex without anal isn't complete sex, so vaginal is something very sporadic always combined with anal afterwards.. A few years ago we decided to expand our family and had two children who brought even more happiness to our lives. Now, unlike commom, we rarely do vaginal sex, basically just on commemorative dates in a "full service proposal" ending with anal sex as the grand finale.

I think that's crazy because it's so... particularly ours and so unusual and at the same time it has a perverted "naughty dirty" side that we keep as our romantic secret. I feel completely satisfied with my sex life. We are going to be 11 years married, we're in our late 30s and our sexual quality has only matured and improved over time. I still think my wife, the love of my life, is the hottest woman in the world. Her ass is my lust.

We also share some light exhibitionism fantasies and part of the motivation for this profile is as an escape valve for our hidden lifestyle.

Greetings to all of you!