I discovered this sub by seeing it being mentioned in subs about sexuality. So I can assume that this idea is gaining followers.

My wife and I do anal as our main sexual practice for a long time. Having sex for us simply means anal sex. It's a long story that beggined with our courtship and went through engagement and consolidated itself after marriage (It's been 15 years of intimacy in total). We have nothing against vaginal sex (we have two kids) so we don't classify ourselves as 100% anal only, but penetrative sex for us is necessarily vaginal anal or anal only. It's our default as a natural arrangement. My wife often says that sex without anal isn't complete sex.

I am delighted with the trust that surrounds this arrangement, my wife's surrender, the "forbidden aspect" and especially the pleasure that she admits to feeling more through anal than through the “right way” of vaginal. I think that's crazy because it's so... unusual and at the same time naughty dirty as our biggest romantic secret.

I feel pleased to find more people who share this interest and understand this especific lifestyle. Nice to meet you!