The other day my online dom told me to buy a dildo to use anally. Long story short, I'm trans and we're doing chastity caging (so that I can't masturbate). our goal is that he holds me accountable short-term and helps me to enjoy anal long-term and, one day, be able to orgasm with anal or maybe anal only. I'm scheduled for a regular orgasm on the 15th, 22nd and 30th right before "locktober", which is a while month being locked up (within health and reason) with daily tasks to work towards an anal orgasm by the end of the month, and dildos are a part of that.

So the dildo arrived, it's a dr skin realistic dildo that's 14 cm (5.5 inches) long. It has a very nice look and feel, and with a bit of lube slides in all the way without any problem, although I don't get much enjoyment out it for now because we're still very early in "training" and orgasm denial (there is also a heatwave, so I'm not in the mood for anything anyway lol).

I'm trans so I have a g-spot up there somewhere. Some say it's not deep at all, so that made me question. Should I train for girth, or train for length?