I assume most of us are just hard-wired to prefer anal. For me, it was literally my sexual programming from the time my sex drive emerged. Child-me assumed girls only had one hole, like me, and it must be their butthole. Ha. So when I discovered masturbation, I'd imagine putting my penis in their butt. Thus, an anal fiend was born.

I've been fortunate to have many girlfriends over the years indulge me in anal. A few loved it. Many did it just to please me. I don't have any interest in doing it with partners that don't love it anymore. Them truly enjoying it as much as I do is a huge part of the attraction. Now, being a 30 year old guy, I date much more intentionally. It's important to me that values, goals, etc, are aligned with partners. Matching all those AND finding someone that loves anal feels near impossible! I tell women before I have sex with them about my need for anal.

My need for anal lately feels like an itch that just won't be scratched. My monkey-mind starts obsessing over it. Needing it for release. Ahhh.