This may sound stupid but... Earlier today my girlfriend of 8 months told me that she lost her virginity around 2021 with her ex after she said 1 took her virginity around 4 months into our relationship.

It was problematic to me because I had a rush of excitement being with her because to my intent (as she once told me) she was a virgin and I liked that because to me it's like gaining control over a certain territory and it makes me happy knowing that I'm her first for everything and she is mine and will forever be. I’ve done it with other girls in my past too but when she told me hours ago that she lost it to her ex I was so uneasy with that and I felt the power in my love being broken a little of the thought of having another man touch her like that. Kinda feels selfish in a way.

We talked it over and she explained everything clearly and it was a mistake that teens commonly make. She was being dumb and did it without thinking. Luckily it was protected. But I feel some anger deep inside towards the guy because of this and i feel like it's a bit problematic. The same guy been wanting my girlfriend to do his hair for a while now but i never felt comfortable allowing her to do it especially without r being there. I told her I wouldn't mind it but I would have to be there but knowing me with my petty ange, want to bash his head in.

I feel like I'm wrong for thinking like that but at the same time I don't. Am I in the wrong? If so what suggestions would you guys have in this case.