I live in NYC, inherited a third of the house. My husband’s 2 brothers inherited the rest. They want to sell it by the end of the year.

I feel like spending too much money on a little studio in NYC is a waste of money compared to something bigger elsewhere.

I don’t have a profession, and I’d work remotely.

Am I being unrealistic and impulsive? I know I can stay in the US but after having spent 25 beautiful years with my husband, I need a big change. I’ll miss NYC, but it’s too expensive.

I’ve been reading that Uruguay has good gay rights. I’m trying to think of what countries would be safe for me, and visit and choose one to be for some months.

EDIT: I don’t want to sell it, but I don’t have the mental and emotional strength to fight them on it. Besides, they own the other 2 thirds. It’ll be messy. They don’t even like me.

Edit 2: sorry for slow responses. I’ve been getting so many calls with everything that comes with someone’s death.

Edit 3: I speak English and Spanish fluently. Italian moderately. As to the remote work, I work as a remote assistant. I’m not making a lot, but it’s enough to live in a moderate country. I wouldn’t be able to live in NYC with that alone without roommates.