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AITB for going on dates with several people at once?
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 So uh, this is kinda complicated. I (18M) got tinder a while back. I've matched with several people while I've had it and I've really only had decent conversations and talks with maybe 10% of the people I match with. 

 So, the last week I've been on dates with 2 different people (there's also sort of a third but we haven't talked in a while). I went on a date with Person A (18F) and it was nice and we really hit it off. But, I'd already scheduled a date with Person B (18F) as well later in the week.

 I didn't want to cancel on them because that seems like it would've been shitty of me to schedule a date and then be like "sorry, I just had a nice date and idk if I'm interested in going on anymore first dates. Sorry you're late to the party I guess?". 

 So, I went on the date with Person B. Now, I wasn't expecting a whole lot but we ALSO hit it off. So now, im currently planning two second dates (also kind of a third but number three might be better as friends idk). Now, Person B is suggesting we have our second date at where I had my date with Person A (no fucking clue how that happened) which doesn't really seem like a good idea.

 I like them both and I know this obviously isn't sustainable (unless they're both attracted to each other and we form some kinda weird polycule).

  I'm not asking for advice but like you can give it if you want I guess? More or less I just wanna know if I'm a pos.

(Also sorry if this is too long but like idk where else to post this)

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