So me (22 m) and a guy (21 m) I have been sleeping with on and off for the past few months were hanging out after moving back to college after summer break. Movie playing, kissing, you know. And he stops and tells me that over the summer he had contracted and STD from someone who didn't tell him they were positive.

He goes on to tell me that I had a right to know before we went any further. He tells me that he feels worthless and that no one will ever love him. I want to help him and tell him that this doesn't define who he is and that he is still the guy that I knew before summer started. He tells me that I am one of a few people he has told and that he doesn't want to tell anyone else. I understand this and try to give him the best advice that I can, given the situation. I invite him to stay and maybe watch another movie, see if anything else comes back up.

He then gets up to leave and go back to him room after all of this and never finishes what we had started. Not that I expected anything to happen, but I wasn't opposed to any of it after all he had said. He had the right to leave and stop what was going on, I'm not knocking him for that. I just want to know if I am the reason he left and that I had made him feel unwanted or if I'm just overthinking and he just needed some time alone. Am I the buttface?