(This is not a personal post, it did not happen to me, but rather a reenactment of an interesting viral instagram post)

I (30m) was being recorded and posted on social media for asking a woman (30f) to get out of my car at a gas station.

She stated "You're trying to leave me because I don't want to have sex with you?"

I stated "You're wasting my time, we've been on 10 dates and you already have 2 kids."

We continued to argue -- mostly respectfully, no name calling or anything of the sort, although But I'm sure it was a stressful situation for both of us.

In short, I'm questioning why she's withholding sex, and she's saying I'm being rude, and I should be happy with just being in a relationship with her, but ultimately she'll have sex with him whenever she's comfortable.

What's your thoughts on this -- in this hypothetical situation? AITB or is she?