I am a 20yr old female student. I am staying with my mother's older brother, my uncle. I lived in their house for almost two years when have college, before no problem, as usual. (before they lived in a shop, his wife owned a laundry business, and my uncle is a truck driver). Long story short, these few days, their grandson was hospitalized, so my aunt spent alot of time in the hospital accompanying their grandchild. Usually I help do their laundry work, but because lately I have a lot of final college assignments, I can't help as much. But I still help fold clothes and do housework, until finally my uncle comes home from work and says why don't you work, you already know that your aunt has been in the hospital almost all day and you do nothing. I was silent listening to all the words that came out of his mouth without defending myself. Although did some laundry work even though I didn't wash it, because was afraid if I was wrong. My cousin his son, before told him to wash the clothes, so once they dry I'll fold them. but he didn't, so just dried the clothes that had been washed before.

Then folded them, besides that I was also working on my final project and editing my assignment in the Canva application. I clean their house, and do my duties like cooking. But when my uncle came, he said why I don't do my laundry and do my housework well. he told me to leave my duties and work, on the one hand my cousin was at home, but he didn't scold him and even said rudely. maybe because he's his son, and I'm just staying at his house, I'm self-conscious. so did it while crying.

Then the next morning my aunt told me and compared me to my cousin (different) who also lived in her house, saying that I was no good, and my cousin did everything without her asking, or folding clothes without her asking, even though also do all of that, but don't know, I'm always wrong in the eyes of other people, even if do some work it doesn't mean anything in their eyes.

So am I wrong for not doing my duties as i live with them. My boyfriend says to tell my parents but i don't want to create problems.

Ps. English is my 3rd language so am using google translator.