For context, I’m (20F) a night owl and a uni student. Meanwhile my bf (20M) is not in uni but works.

A lot of the times he will take a nap after work or near midnight. He’ll tell me or text me that if he falls asleep just wake him up.

Most of the time I don’t because I want him to get some rest and just in general I feel bad. Usually after an hour or two I try to wake him up but he’ll just end up sleeping again.

I’m not super mad or frustrated but in a few occasions we or I was going to go out, he would already be asleep and he’d tell me to wake him up but same thing when i wake him up he’ll sleep again.

I’ve had to miss hanging out with friends because I feel bad if i leave him at home and i would just stay up until i eventually sleep, feeling like i’ve wasted my time doing nothing.

Am i the asshole for feeling a bit annoyed and salty? because when this happens he tells me the next time he will stay awake when i wake him up, but i know it’s pointless because he won’t actually do that.