I (24f) recently had my wedding on the beach of a beautiful hotel in Cancun. Many of my friends and family could go so I was very happy. The only problem was during our ceremony, there were people on the sea playing or doing jet ski activities. It really bothered me because they would appear in the background so I told my wedding planner about it. She was very understanding and said she would fix it.

When she talked to the owners of the activities and to the people in that area of the sea, we expected them to be kind and nice, but they just declined and continued. I even took the time to go myself and ask them to stop but they didn’t care.

I was about to go and tell someone from the hotel but my now husband stopped me and said it would be an AH thing to do. I told him standing up for myself wasn’t an AH thing to do and went looking for hotel staff, but they said there was nothing they could do.

When I returned my husband was moody and I wonder if it really was an AH thing to do. AITA?