Good morning, quick warning I am on mobile so sorry for the formatting.

So my brother and i, him 25 years old, me 32 years old, got into a bit of an argument last night.

For a bit of context, him and I used to talk a lot. But because of some other things in my life that I've had to deal with, I've been out of contact with him for the past couple of months. Last night, he wanted to try and get into it with me because he felt like we didn't talk enough.

Now, I do get open communication between siblings and family. However, the way he went about it, very strong in trying to get his point across. To the point where some vulgarities were slung. it basically boiled down to him whining about the fact that we don't talk enough.

I love my brother. There's no mistaking that. But the fact that he's 25, and complaining about the fact that we don't talk enough, to me seems very childish.

I told him that I refuse to be disrespected and gaslit and lambasted because him and I don't talk enough.

It got to the point where he ended up getting my father involved. Our father. And he saw the entire text exchange.

After I told him that I was not going to be disrespected, he basically told me to f off.

my fiance was with me the entire time, and she has told me, and supports me in this entire thing. But I wanted to get y'all's opinion.

So tell me Reddit, AITA?

Edit one: spelling and grammar