I (19F) am about 20 weeks pregnant and in my 2nd trimester. My (22M) boyfriend and I have been fighting a lot because I haven't been able to do much cleaning. Since my second trimester started I've been having major headaches and Migraines to the point my vision blurs, I can't walk on my own, and my body goes numb.

Well last week my card information had gotten leaked so I had to request a new one and have no access to the money at the moment, we have to go to a laundry mat just to do clothes and my boyfriend has no money having spent it all putting gas in my car. So because of not having gone to the laundry mat we have no clean rags to wash dishes so I had as my mom to pick some up on her way to my house this morning so I could do dishes so they were at least done before he woke up but plans changed.

First his dad came by, then his dad ended up taking me to the ER because I was told to by my OB if my headache pills didn't work. Finally when she told me I could go home she said not to do anything and just lay in a dark, quiet room. As I was leaving my boyfriend called me asking me if I was alright and what I was doing, I told him I was as ok as I could be they gave me medicine and told me to go home. He had offered to stay home and I said okay as long as he could.

I had gotten home and laid down and all he started doing was griping and complaining because I haven't been able to clean. He told me that if I don't start cleaning soon I'm going to have to find somewhere else to stay. I tried saying that I was going to clean before my migraine came up but couldn't. He had told me he didn't want me to move out but he was getting tired then took his pillow out of the room to sleep in the living room. So I decided tomorrow the only day we have off together, I'm just going to clean the dishes and fix up the kitchen before heading to my mom's for a week. Am I the asshole for not cleaning for so long??