So I just took over my sisters lease, my sister rented out a bedroom and shared a bathroom with one other girl.* I feel somewhat obligated to take over the lease because she’s moving in with a boyfriend and her friends expressed some concern about it and would like for her to have a back up plan* My sister moved out in mid October and I planned to move-in in early December. Mid November I went to the house to check it out , I was having some friends from out of town come and stay and my sister said we could stay there! I walked in and the bathroom was absolutely disgusting. I gave the girl the benefit of the doubt and just cleaned the bathroom. I left a note that read “please be more considerate of shared spaces, I move in soon” I went into the bathroom later that day to find a note. The note touched on many topics such as I need to learn to live with someone with ADHD, I need to cut back on my cannabis consumption and I will not be able to park here in the winter and I’ll need to park elsewhere. I’d like to mention that I have been diagnosed with ADHD, I have a medical marijuana card(I had not smoked inside the house) and I will be paying more in rent than her making me feel uneasy about the parking situation.

My response to the note was passively aggressively annotate the note and touch on the concerns I just expressed.

Am I being an ass hole or was her note called for?