I made the whole thanksgiving dinner from scratch. I set the whole table for our joint extended family. I made all the plans, did the shopping, made all the food. I asked that my husband check in every 30-60 mins to clear the sink so things didn’t back up. When we reviewed the plan ahead of time, my husband was on board. When other people showed up, he stopped doing dishes and started complaining about the dishes he agreed to do. Now he has his whole family thinking I’m demanding and terrible. Am I wrong for insisting he do the one chore he agreed to?

EDIT: my husband is doing all the dishes in an excessively loud way. Like so loud I think he is purposefully being annoying so I’ll stop him and do it.