Alright, so I moved to Florida three years ago after hurricane Maria landed on Puerto Rico, obviously, as a caring and loving son/brother, I brought my parents and younger brother with me (who at the time, like me, was single).

A couple of months pass and I get a job, ans saved enough money to rent a nice house for the family (my brother was supposed to help me pay the bills and my parents too)

Fast forward three years later. My girlfriend moved in with us (been dating me for 2 years already). My brother seemed to envy my relationship, so he went and moved in the first idiot who would date him.

I told him no, my parents adviced him against it (he had not been dating this woman for more than two months).

He promised she would work and help with bills.

Its been almost two years since he moved her in. The longest she has ever worked was three months. Which, she never helped with anything in the house. Kept using his car, even when we told her she was not allowed since she was not in the insurance and refused to pay for it.

My brother can't be trusted to help much, he dived in into a ton of debt (he is a greedy idiot) and he can't keep a job longer than six months. He keeps blaming his coworkers for his troubles at work and with managers. He's just one big asshole and will never accept that he is in the wrong.

My mother is upset, because I got tired and called them parasites and refuse to help him when he falls back on payments.

My family thinks I'm a horrible person for basocally telling him to either go back to Puerto Rico and live with my grandma, or play his luck and live in a trailer with his girlfriend and her family.