Ok so my gf moved in with me at the beginning of the pandemic, we've been dating for about six months but her lease was up and it just made sense.

Anyway when she moved in she brought this like five foot long body pillow that she insists on sleeping with every night. It kinda pisses me off because we'll be cuddling and then she'll turn away and wrap herself around this pillow when I'm literally right there tryna snuggle, not even asleep yet. It's been bothering me for a while cuz it feels insulting, like she doesn't even wanna fall asleep in my arms? I've never dated a girl who didn't want to cuddle all night and I'm hella confused. Anyways this morning I asked her to stop using the body pillow and just cuddle with me instead and she said no cuz it "helps her back" and "she gets too sweaty cuddling me all night". That really hurt my feelings and I called bullshit on it helping her back, it's a fucking pillow. She said I was overreacting and I told her if she thought so then she could start sleeping in the guest room instead cuz I'm not boutta get rejected every night for a fucking pillow. We kept fighting for a while but she's been giving me the cold shoulder for a couple hours now.

I'm starting to feel bad and like I should've just dealt with it but I'm tired of being rejected every single night. So am I seriously TA?

edit: so I went to apologize and found her packing her shit. i begged her to stay and honestly lost my temper because she's leaving me over a dumb fight over a pillow. so all of you who called me controlling got your damn way, she's at her sister's now. fucking thanks.

edit 2: i get that im the asshole but can y'all please stop PMing me, i got the fucking message