So a bit of background, I have ASD though I am high functioning. Got a wife and kids and a good job with the government.

Now, it's been something that has bothered me for years, and while my wife understands and has stopped doing so, for the most part, I still get upset when food that I've planned to eat the next day is eaten.

As an example, if I make a pizza, I eat the amount I want for supper. Then I portion the rest into amounts for the next X days. If my wife wants some, I make a separate portion for her. I eat the amount I portioned out for myself, and she eats the amount that she was portioned out. The issue gets when the amount I've portioned out is gone. It used to be far worse in the past, but recently my ASD 'symptoms' have been getting worse due to stress. At one point in the past I had a full on breakdown when a pizza I was saving for myself to eat the next day was gone.

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I'm not looking for validation here at all, I just want to know what most people think. Is it acceptable for me to be upset over this? Or should I try even harder to be okay with it? Let me know what you think, thanks in advance.