I (21f) have been dating "Ryan" (not his real name) (24m) for 1 month now. We've been having fun. We met at work, though he's found a new job since then. So far he's been nice and very generous.

Yesterday afternoon/evening we went to a football watch party together at one of his friend's house. This was the first time I was going to hang out with a group that was primarily his friends rather than a mixed group or just one-on-one, so I was a little nervous. I like sports though. I find it relaxing since I grew up in a family with a lot of guys who were into sports, so once we settled in I started to relax and sat down on the couch.

After a little bit I had a beer, and a cat came over and snuggled up against me. I started to get really sleepy and without thinking I just kind of curled up on the couch and fell asleep. It wasn't really a conscious choice...just no one was really engaging me in conversation and I just tipped over.

Next thing I know, "Ryan" is shaking me, super pissed off and yelling at me for falling asleep. I apologized and just said that I was really comfortable and got sleepy, I didn't mean to upset anyone. He said that it was really rude of me and I was being a bad guest. Then he said "If you were just going to sleep then why the f*** did you even bother to come?"

We were surrounded by all of his friends and being yelled like that is honestly really triggering to me, and my eyes started to tear up. Before I could start to cry in front of everyone I got up and ran into the bathroom.

He knocked on the door a bunch as I was trying to calm down. He tried apologizing through the door and said I was overreacting, but I just stayed in there until my uber came and I went home. He blew up my phone all night since then and I told him we'd talk about it later. I've been dodging his calls today though because I'm still really embarrassed about it and can't face him.

Was I really being that rude? I didn't think anyone even noticed I was there anyway. Even if I was being rude, I still don't feel I deserved being yelled at. So, AITA?

TLDR: I feel asleep at a party. Boyfriend told me I was a bad guest and yelled at me in front of everyone and humiliated me.