So I am more of a lurker then anything else, delete posts once advice is given or if I feel stupid or get really mean comments and make many comments at all. I am more of a scroll thru reddit and personally enjoy instead of announcing I enjoy. But due to this fact I dont have much for karma and as its been a very rough few weeks due to medical complications, having my twins taken via emergency csection at only 32 weeks, my needing multiple surgeries almost dying due to blood loss, my twins being home with me for only 11 days before needing to be readmitted into the nicu from viral meningitis an the hospital is 2 hours away and gas isnt cheap. Do to this haven't worked so I decided to try gofundme for help with gas, christmas and bills and whatever the kids may need but can not post almost anywhere bc of credit karma, but luck struck me and I found a gofundme community that allowed me to post. I felt so lucky until someone decided to comment on my post about my reddit activity and ended by asking how reddit is my community and it made me kinda sad but now I'm like does my activity really hold so much weight to be allowed to consider reddit my community. So I guess my question is AITAH for not being more active instead of lurking when requesting support and considering reddit my community...