I 18f was hanging out with friends and one 18m very recently got his first girlfriend

People where asking him questions and stuff and he mentioned she’s amazing and he can’t believe it and how excited he is and when he was holding her all he could think was holy shit omgomgomgomgomg like all giddy about it

I just suggested he try and tone down those feelings a bit because personally it would give me a bit of an ick and even if he doesn’t think he expresses that too much he probably does come across a bit needy or too much if that’s what’s going on in his head. Comes across clingy and needy.

Then also because someone asked him about sex he mentioned they did “stuff” and he’s nervous about eating her out because even tho he really wants to he doesn’t know what to do because he’s never done it before.

I say if they were already doing “stuff” then why didn’t he try? (Seemed like he didn’t even ask) he shouldn’t let nerves stop him doing stuff in a relationship he should have more confidence in her, himself and the relationship itself. And that goes beyond sex I was speaking in general but using this as an example. It comes across that he lacks confidence. (Also he eventually because it was asked mentioned “stuff” included a blowjob so really actually don’t know why he didn’t do more than presumably use his hands? Just unrelated if he wanted to so much little confused on why he didn’t lol)

Both instances of giving advice led to the group telling me off, asking me who the hell asked and to stop and be quiet and to stop trying to put him down which wasn’t what I was doing I was just trying to be helpful

Note: If you seen this the other day there was an issue with my account that caused an issue with the post and caused it to be removed before a proper discussion could happen which is now fixed