So I met up with my partner after I got off work to catch up. My partner informed me that about a week ago they had fallen and hit there head pretty bad and said it's been tender to the touch since, which I then followed by asking if they had a concussion, my partner said they didn't think so and I stated they had been sleeping a lot lately and was a little concerned. My partner then told me that they might be going out with friends and was pretty tired because they also had worked a long shift and we also had plans to hike the following morning with a group of my friends.

I asked my partner if they wanted professional advice go to a doctor but I wanted to offer some advice and they agreed. I then told my partner I didn't think they should go out because they potentially could have a concussion & they should get rest. My partner insisted they were fine and told me they would be out with there friends for an hour then go home to sleep. This was around 11:30, my partner text me at 3am saying they made it home.

I was so frustrated that my partner wasn't prioritizing their health or our plans for the hike. I told them I was upset and not to come on the hike. My partner insisted that they would be okay and that they knew themself but I told not to come and to stay at home. I also mentioned how they didn't even consider our plans by staying out so late. My partner says I dismissed what they felt & just wanted to control what they did. I feel like this is what accountability looks like and if they wasn't going to prioritize their health, I had to.