My Mom turned 75 years old last week and I got her tickets to watch her favorite Broadway musical. That was my gift to her. However, the rest of the family apparently had this whole grand birthday party planned and asked all of us to chip in. I refused because I had already bought a gift, and it wasn't cheap either. They still kept insisting that I either chip in some money or take care of the decorations. I was initially okay with it until they told me that they wanted something lavish. So I told them they could either do it themselves, or allow me to do it my way. Long story short, they didn't like my decorations and are still annoyed that I didn't chip in and I'll prolly never hear the end of it.