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AITA for "throwing a tantrum" because my child wasn't invited to a childfree wedding?
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My sister is getting remarried and she wants a very small wedding with only immediate family.

Yesterday we got her wedding invitation and to my surprise it said that the wedding is childfree and my child isn't invited. My child is 17yo, going 18 soon. Btw my child is the only one under 18 in our family(and in the groom's family) so she is the only one being excluded.

I called my sister and asked her if she is fking serious? She said I'm sorry but we have decided that we want a childfree wedding. I told her to just say you want a "my child" free wedding and get over with it because this is exactly what you are doing. We got into an argument and she told me to stop throwing a tantrum and my child doesn't need to be included in everything. I told her that we won't be attending her wedding then and she called me an asshole for not supporting her

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I was fully prepared to say YTA, but your daughter is 17!! That's not a child. NTA here at all. Has there been any interaction between your daughter and your family that may explain this exclusion?

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