I tend to speak without thinking which has gotten me in the trouble in the past. I just moved to a new area and made a new female friend. I was at her house for the first time and her husband was on the couch. We were eating pizza in the kitchen and she asked if I wanted ranch on my pizza, umm yes please. She pulled out some generic brand and I’m like “ you don’t have hidden valley? It’s the best”. Her husband ripped me a new one about how he can afford it and why would I say that. I apologized and said it was an innocent comment and I would have said it if they didn’t use Heinz ketchup either. He wouldn’t let it go and talked down to me about other things I said to the point that I left. Point is was I the asshole? It’s actually really bothering me.