Before I got married I got along with my MIL till I asked her to discipline her dog that would constantly attack my dog, it started off small which I would just redirect him till he was snapping and trying to pin her down, she was coming out a river after swimming and he did it a few times because she loves to swim. (This all happened in the same visit and we live hours apart so I couldn’t really just take her home) The next time I was met to visit a asked if there could be some rule eg not feeding in the same room and if he goes after her that he gets removed from the room or put on the lead. She then complained that it is his house and he can do what he wants. I disagreed and didn’t go visit my MIL. This strained our relationship. Then when it came to my wedding she was trying to control every aspect of the day. I asked for no one to take pictures unless it was on my husband’s or my phone so I could make sure I could send it out to the rest of the two sides. My FIL didn’t listen to this and took lots of pictures, I didn’t want to make a fuss on the day but when they decided to send all the pictures to their side of the family some of which I look terrible in. Made me go mad and we got into an argument and she basically said I can’t have everything my way. Not only did my side get nothing it was really upsetting to me. A few months later of arguing she got her other children involved and they where giving my husband grief and he was told to control me which he replied that I can feel and act how I want and if it upsets me he’s not going to tell me that it is wrong to feel that way. Before I knew I fell pregnant (and lost it) I blocked her it must have been due to the crazy hormones, I just couldn’t deal with her giving us grief, the loss of the pregnancy and one of my dogs needing to be put to sleep. I needed space to breathe and try and come to terms with what happened. She was told what I was going through and she didn’t seem to care about it. Now I am thinking I shouldn’t have blocked her but I’m not sure.