I'm a 34F & was never close to my bio dad or family. I was raised by my step-dad. While im thankful for having a dad, as a parent, I can't fathom hurting my own kids the way he did with his bio children. I found out some things he did a few years ago & haven't contacted him since. He's still grandpa to my 13 year old son. I never stopped them from talking. He's been hospitalized a few days now & the prognosis is grim. He's hospitalized in another state & I dont drive, making it impossible for me to even see him. AITA for not caring enough to try to see him before he passes? I'm sure I could arrange transportation somehow but I've been estranged from practically everyone since I buried my own child 5 years ago