My husband works very hard and works second shift so he works late. I suffer from mental health issues which are debilitating and therefore I can’t work and most days can’t get out of bed. I try to keep up on the house as best I can but I keep asking my husband to please pick up his laundry from the bathroom floor, the living room floor, and to please throw away his trash after eating/drinking. He literally just throws soda bottles on the floor along with plates and other trash. He also puts his trash and empty food boxes on the stove instead of turning around and throwing them away in the trash can right behind him. Soooo am I the asshole for asking him to pick up after himself even though he works so hard?