On my phone so sorry if I spell things wrong or have run on sentences.

To start off im 25 and work in a family owned machine shop. The bosses son and I (well call him tom) we were very good friends get drunk together, help each other out in many ways with talking things out that when he had no one else to go to. Tom and I were friends for 5 years in the last 2 years he started doing cocane and heavily drinking. Through a mutual friend he got Molly I worked the Saturday he got it friday. I went to his house after work to drop off roommate, he said he had been up sences Friday on a binge of booze and Molly. I didn't really think anything of it at the time.

I dont really know where this fits in the story or the time-line. Tom had told me on multiple occasions that, when his dad said he was proud of my accomplishments at work he would treat me like shit bc he was angry he didn't get recognized for anything

I must say I'm a user of weed, mushrooms, and a beer now and again. I didn't think things were right when I left his house after 20 mins lets say it was 1 pm. So I went back around 9 pm when he answered the door he could barely stand and talk. His lips were purple, sweating but shivering, nodding off mid talk. I confronted him about this that night and when every one was sober, I was laughted at but said Tom said he was done with it. I push it aside and think it's the past and he learned. 3 weeks latter were hanging out and he's braging about posably getting more Molly to snort that night and it really pissed me off so I decided then and there I'm done.

I haven't had a beer or done anything with him sences then, avoid him during work as much as possible will walk out of my way to avoid him.will only talk when needed. I was told today by the boss that I have been accused of shoulder checking him and slaming doors in his face. I have never been in a fight or seeked out violence in any way. During this talk with the boss, the boss asked multiple time why we stoped being friends.

I sent a text message to the boss apologizing I could say this in person during the talk, but I told him we were going down a dark path and I relized it wanted to change the path and was pushed away so I decided to subtract my self from the situation.Along with other things I had issues with but told him I would talk in person if he wanted to or he could disregard the text massage but I had to say something after I sent that my chest pains and away.

The big question I have is, should I tell the boss aka Tom's dad, the true reasons why we are no longer friends or do I leave it at what I said that dips into what I said in the text message? Would I be the asshole telling Tom's dad I'm worried he's going od or keep going down this path and die