I moved to Texas a couple months ago and have some continued care in CO. I sent my mother and my sister my itentiary and asked if either could pick me up.

My little sister (25) said she couldn't because she has Bible Study. My mother said she could after her board meeting finished. My mother is 61 and typically starts her days at 7am. Meaning her day ends at 9pm didn't know when I asked So I'll probably end up taking an Uber. (About a $60 trip to my parents home)

My sister then says she still wants to see me and I said no don't ruin your routine since important to you. She said there is no routine I just enjoy Bible study on Monday and Tuesday it's a commitment I've made to myself. I'm trying to but can't understand not being able to miss Bible Study.

She will be attending a religious conference next month. She asked me to join her expressing it's an experience she'd like to share with me. I obliged, despite being atheist, I have no problem supporting her. My issue is I have taken off work, I will not be staying with my commitment to my gym buddy in order to accommodate her stay.

I'm struggling with whether I'm an asshole for feeling differently about her coming to visit now. I'm also wondering if I'm being unreasonable for being irritated.

I have no issue with her religion at all, I really don't talk about religion or try to indoctrinate them with my beliefs