So I was watching Kill Your Darlings and SPOILER ALERT there's a scene where after they just escaped the school and come back home from crime the wife kicks out the football star to go sleep at his friends for the night cause he insulted food, brought guests over uninvited and missed dinner with her great aunt.

So I said "If it was me in the 1940s Id just hit her and stay home." I wouldnt care if I was in front if her aunt and I'd be cis so it be more acceptable. Was my serious joke I made.

Now my girlfriend and friends are afraid of me. They think I'm an abuser. Now I'm debating weather I should take anger management classes. Or do some more mental health work to talk like that.