My boyfriend and I have been dating for one and a half years.

A couple months ago he told me that he hasn't replaced his glasses in about a decade.

His mom used to make his doctors appointments for him but ever since he moved out she stopped.

I told him I'd do it for him, so I called and got him an appointment. It turns out his prescription was really outdated. They said it probably wasn't even safe for him to drive which is kind of scary because he insists on driving (he thinks women are bad drivers LOL).

Anyway his new glasses came and he put them on and seemed really excited. Then when he turned to me like he gave me a weird look.

The whole car ride home he was really quiet. I was asking him questions, like, how does it feel to see the road clearly and he would just give one word answers like "fine."

He didn't kiss me all day like he usually does. That night I tried to engage him in sex but he told me he wasn't in the mood and he's ALWAYS in the mood.

The next morning when I woke up he was already up. Usually I have to get him up, like for work etc.

He was in the kitchen on his phone and when I walked in he said we need to talk and that I catfished him.

He showed me a picture of myself from when we met on Tinder (I lied about my age but told him when we met and he didn't mind) and said I didn't look like that.

I've gained about 30 lbs. since then since he always wants to go out to eat, it's kinda been a bad habit for both of us. A lot of it went to my face and I look a little different.

I explained that to him and he just looked annoyed.

He went to his computer and put on his headphones and started gaming and has been ignoring me ever since.

Was it wrong of me to gain weight?

EDIT: For people calling my man a pedo, actually, it's ephebophilia when they're teens.

EDIT 2: I think I took advantage of him. I pursued him, knowing most men wouldn't be able to turn down a younger girl. I feel kind of like a predator.