we were at her birthday dinner and all was going well until it came to singing her HBD. She wanted to hold my 1 year old while they sang to her so that she can have it on videos/pictures for memories. Once we were done singing HBD she wanted pictures with my daughter, she kept trying to get pictures of either my daughter kissing her on the cheek or she kissing my daughter on the cheek. I hate that she does this because I’ve already tried enforcing no kissing rule to which she constantly breaks. Anyway my daughter starts to get overstimulated and my MIL is still insisting on getting the perfect picture with her. I lost my patience and grabbed my daughter and told her enough is enough! She immediately started getting teary eyed and later on texted my husband saying I ruined her entire dinner experience.